I am a rose of Sharon, a lily of the valleys. Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the maidens. (Song of Songs 2: 1-2)

The Beloved speaks, the Lover responds.

The translation rose may mislead us. We think of the rose as a majestic flower.

This rose of Sharon was probably a crocus.

I am, the Beloved says, a small and insignificant thing.

The Lover does not protest, but he does redirect.

Whether it is false modesty or truly felt modesty, the Lover offers a clarification of the Beloved's value.

To listen, to respond honestly, to confirm value... this is loving.